I occasionally escape from Twitter to Tik Tok in an attempt to preserve what’s left of my mental health and wow, it’s been a trip. It’s an interesting space and similar to the Twitterverse, like-minded people eventually find each other and as you watch videos and like content, your ‘For You’ page can start to get … um… very specific. So it wasn’t a complete … Continue reading Tell Me What You Really Kink…
I’ve been sitting on this post for about 2 years now. Sex is such a dynamic topic and I tend to get very personal about it. But every so often I end up in an interaction that so grating in its anachronistic nature, that I’m forced to revisit this topic. Today’s catalyst was this tweet: https://twitter.com/It_Chioma/status/1239799286239559680?s=20 that continues to support the notion that a man … Continue reading The Madonna AND the Whore
Before I get into this topic, let me lead with this: if you and your partner are interested in any kind of sexual activities outside of vanilla sex, if you want to try ANYTHING at all that falls along the BDSM spectrum, the most important thing to do is talk about it first. Have honest dialogue about your interests, intentions and expectations. Discuss your limits … Continue reading Choke Responsibly…
Someone implied today that I’m unattractive. It put a little hitch in my step because it played on a deeply held insecurity that has followed me since I was a child. There are things that you grow past. They affect you less and less as you mature and you learn to hold the demons at bay. Then, there are the things that you will struggle … Continue reading Heart of the Beholder
So many persons are looking for a partner, romantic, sexual or otherwise, but so few seem to be connecting. I’ve been trying to figure out the reason for this and while I have some theories, they’re purely opinion based since I’ve been out of the milieu for a while and I can only speculate at this time until I head back out there. So far, … Continue reading Stream of Consciousness – Dating
Why is my body type offensive? I work in an environment where there is no dress code, so attire can run the gamut from professional to casual in the space of a week and I’m not just talking about casual Fridays. Every unit has their manager and sure, they each have their preference. But it’s just that, a preference. They can dictate, but there’s no … Continue reading Dangerous Curves
It’s the year 2018 in the 21st century. We’ve put a man on the moon. The wisdom of the ages can be held in the palm of our hands. The sex toy industry is booming and there are androids being built for the sole purpose of sex…for men. And throughout all of this… women are still not having regular orgasms. How are we inventing quicker, … Continue reading Cum On Now…
So, you think you’re an alpha male… Think you have what it takes to command respect… Not demand it, not whine petulantly that you’re not getting it, not browbeat or emotionally blackmail someone in order to get it. I said command – earn, warrant, achieve, deserve. If you think you’re the boss when a woman who needs you, requires you for her health, wealth or … Continue reading You Beta Not..
The Happiness Paradigm 