My own choice is a renewal of my faith and spirituality and to reclaim my personal and individual connection with my Creator. My life is simply better when I nurture that connection and give it the space and support that it needs to flourish. I accept my responsibility as a human being on this planet, to be a steward, to protect, preserve and replenish. Continue reading Watch Your Self…
Hi there! Let me just preface this by saying that I love you. Honestly. Thanks for reading my blog and just all around being an awesome person. Keep that shit up! But today, today, I’m going to hurt your feelings a little. You know that shit you’re going through? The things that you’re waiting for God or the universe or whatever divine principle you believe … Continue reading Manifest Your Own Damned Destiny…
Before I get into this topic, let me lead with this: if you and your partner are interested in any kind of sexual activities outside of vanilla sex, if you want to try ANYTHING at all that falls along the BDSM spectrum, the most important thing to do is talk about it first. Have honest dialogue about your interests, intentions and expectations. Discuss your limits … Continue reading Choke Responsibly…
I abhor platitudes. I try not to use them and especially not to persons feeling grief. They’re intended to comfort, I understand that, but I also know how useless they are to the people on the receiving end of them. When my mother died, I had them thrown at me from all angles and the anger I felt was eclipsed only by my shock and … Continue reading Everything Happens…
I’m sick and tired of the duplicity. Take responsibility. Men view, talk about and treat women how they observe their mothers/sisters/aunts/neighbours/coworkers/wives etc do. I wish more of us would admit this. Women perpetuate misogyny by being in constant competition with other women because we’re socialized to value being attractive to and selected by a man, any man, over our individual and collective well-being, dignity and … Continue reading Fight Me!!
I saw a man dying. It happened on television. But he wasn’t an actor. There was no movie title. There were no end credits and when the filming stopped he didn’t get up and go home to his family. I saw a man murdered by another man. A human life lost to irrational, unfounded fear built on systemic racism. I can’t get it out of … Continue reading Broken
There is blood on our hands – the blood of self-righteousness and hypocrisy, the blood of complicity and complacency. Our hands and hearts are filthy with hate and discrimination and cowardice and ignorance. We peer all but blindly around the log in our own eyes, through the cracked, dirty glass of our lives and complain bitterly about the mite in our neighbour’s eye, about the … Continue reading Blood On Our Hands
I’ve knocked out a few pretty serious posts in the last few months and then came down with a serious case of writers’ block. I keep starting more current event posts and not being able to finish them because I am so tired of all the awful shit that’s happening locally and internationally. We’ve become so unkind to each other. And that’s really what it … Continue reading Do What You Love…
The Happiness Paradigm 