My own choice is a renewal of my faith and spirituality and to reclaim my personal and individual connection with my Creator. My life is simply better when I nurture that connection and give it the space and support that it needs to flourish. I accept my responsibility as a human being on this planet, to be a steward, to protect, preserve and replenish. Continue reading Watch Your Self…
Your pain is real and your desire for reprieve is valid and you have nothing to feel guilty about in wanting to get relief. Continue reading Relief
Very few people become a billionaire by accident… Sure, there are tech start-ups that managed to create a product, app or service that took off and caused the company value to increase exponentially. And some of those tech entrepreneurs managed to sell their start up, that probably cost them thousands to start, for millions or even billions… But, by and large, when a new company … Continue reading The Bare Minimum…
Some people are poor because they’ve made poor choices. But far more people live in poverty due to systemic issues and/or historical legacy than due to a pattern of financial misbehavior. Most poor people were born into poverty and don’t have the knowledge or resources to escape it – J D Roth, 2018. I’ve been promising this post for the longest while now but my … Continue reading Yes They Can… But They Don’t Want To…
I’ve been sitting on this post for about 2 years now. Sex is such a dynamic topic and I tend to get very personal about it. But every so often I end up in an interaction that so grating in its anachronistic nature, that I’m forced to revisit this topic. Today’s catalyst was this tweet: https://twitter.com/It_Chioma/status/1239799286239559680?s=20 that continues to support the notion that a man … Continue reading The Madonna AND the Whore
Each year I make some very specific commitments to myself. They’re not New Years resolutions per se. They tend to be anchored to my birthday and are borne of introspection and a desire to make changes to certain aspects of my life that I find to be inadequate or unfulfilling. As a result of these promises to myself, I’ve made progress towards becoming more the … Continue reading Now…
In my country, when a person is beset by a run of bad luck, elders will comment that maybe they killed someone’s white fowl (chicken). I’m not entirely sure what it means, other than that you’ve done something to provoke someone into wishing or orchestrating a series of unfortunate events in your life. For me, 2019 was the year of the White Fowl Chronicles. I … Continue reading Living and Learning…
Hi there! Let me just preface this by saying that I love you. Honestly. Thanks for reading my blog and just all around being an awesome person. Keep that shit up! But today, today, I’m going to hurt your feelings a little. You know that shit you’re going through? The things that you’re waiting for God or the universe or whatever divine principle you believe … Continue reading Manifest Your Own Damned Destiny…
The Happiness Paradigm 