I occasionally escape from Twitter to Tik Tok in an attempt to preserve what’s left of my mental health and wow, it’s been a trip. It’s an interesting space and similar to the Twitterverse, like-minded people eventually find each other and as you watch videos and like content, your ‘For You’ page can start to get … um… very specific. So it wasn’t a complete … Continue reading Tell Me What You Really Kink…
Each year I make some very specific commitments to myself. They’re not New Years resolutions per se. They tend to be anchored to my birthday and are borne of introspection and a desire to make changes to certain aspects of my life that I find to be inadequate or unfulfilling. As a result of these promises to myself, I’ve made progress towards becoming more the … Continue reading Now…
In my country, when a person is beset by a run of bad luck, elders will comment that maybe they killed someone’s white fowl (chicken). I’m not entirely sure what it means, other than that you’ve done something to provoke someone into wishing or orchestrating a series of unfortunate events in your life. For me, 2019 was the year of the White Fowl Chronicles. I … Continue reading Living and Learning…
Hi there! Let me just preface this by saying that I love you. Honestly. Thanks for reading my blog and just all around being an awesome person. Keep that shit up! But today, today, I’m going to hurt your feelings a little. You know that shit you’re going through? The things that you’re waiting for God or the universe or whatever divine principle you believe … Continue reading Manifest Your Own Damned Destiny…
Before I get into this topic, let me lead with this: if you and your partner are interested in any kind of sexual activities outside of vanilla sex, if you want to try ANYTHING at all that falls along the BDSM spectrum, the most important thing to do is talk about it first. Have honest dialogue about your interests, intentions and expectations. Discuss your limits … Continue reading Choke Responsibly…
I should be baking today. I should have been baking since last week. I couldn’t. I’ve been flat and I couldn’t figure out why until today. It’s amazing how the subconscious mind notes and reacts to events and memorials even before the conscious mind can acknowledge them. I spend a lot of time on Twitter these days. I’ve found a small tribe on a platform … Continue reading The Path is the Destination
Time to get back on topic. I’ve been giving consideration to actually putting myself back out there to date. Living in a country that doesn’t have a strong dating culture makes that enough of a challenge. But having engaged in conversations with others over the past few months, I’ve come to realize that that may be the least of my obstructions. So, I’ve been … Continue reading Save The Date…
This is not the post I intended to write next. I’ve been avoiding this one but it’s finally overflowing. I can’t focus on anything else and this can’t continue. I understand that trauma changes us. I accept this as a fact of life. But I never realized how much until I started taking note of my emotions after therapy. I’m not sure I like what … Continue reading An Unwelcome Change
The Happiness Paradigm 